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Showing posts with label lifestyle. Show all posts

Friday, August 7, 2009

Grief of a Myna





Indian Myna birds mate for life. We’ve been watching this bird & it’s mate living in our garden for the past month. Myna’s are considered pests in Australia, but they’ve been no concern to us, & they’ve become noisy but welcome guests at our home.

Early this morning my 2 yr old son approached me very distressed, taking me by the hand & leading me to our back fence, where he showed me one of the Myna birds stuck in the fence. It had caught it’s leg between the palings & being unable to free itself, had unfortunately died overnight.
Under the watchful eye of my son, I removed the bird, & began to wrap it with the intention of putting it in the bin.
This made my son quite distressed & left me with a small dilemma… Do I casually dispose of the dead bird & continue my day, or do I attempt to explain death to a 2 yr old in the face of his first experience of it?
I took a deep breath & chose the latter option… albeit an abridged version of death.
Instead of throwing the bird in the bin, I asked my son if he wanted to bury it instead. He had no idea what burial was, but somehow understood that this was a nicer option for the bird.
So, spade in hand, we dug a decent hole, placed the bird in, my son waved goodbye, then we covered the bird…. burial complete, & my son content .

Which brings me to the bird in this image. As I previously mentioned, this is the mate of the dead bird. For the whole time that we were burying it’s mate, this bird stood on the ground 10 feet from me & watched the entire process.
Upon completion of the burial, this bird flew to the place on the fence where it’s mate died, & spent the rest of the morning sitting there alone, calling mournfully. A sad & sorrowful sound, I can assure you.
I was able to snap this photo during it’s grieving vigil.

Thursday, July 23, 2009

Redbubble homepage


I'm very excited to see one of my images "Light of my Life" on the redbubble Homepage. It's nice to see his smiling face beaming out to the world!